3STAGES 3PEOPLE REPRIMANDS

3STAGES 3PEOPLE REPRIMANDS

The paradoxical of life when a boy is the father of a man and an egg is the father of a cock. 

Reprimand, rebuke is what we all need and deserve to be a better person in life and to make it in all ramifications.

That’s just a glimpse of what the stages looks like in life, it is fact and it is natural.

§         STAGE 1

This is the most vital, fragile, flexible and critical stage among the three stages, it is the page where the prologue of our life will be written. It is the stage right from our childhood to the adult stage (18+ in Nigeria, below or above in other countries). This stage is where we will be reprimanded by our PARENT, the first (1) people.

Deed;

From carrying to crawling, when we discovered that we have left that heaven in the womb of our mother, then we will try making all effort to go back to that heaven, by trying to play with, going close to dangerous things and doing dangerous things that can take life. i.e playing with fire, drinking and eating whatever we see at sight be it soap, sand, charcoal and likes, crawling and falling from staircase, bed or chair, getting too friendly with electricity and electronics and so on. I called this level a “suicide mission impossible”

Reprimand;

It is the duty of our parent to take very good care and reprimanded us while they watch us grow. The means of reprimand in this level is to caution us, avoid us going near instrument of death through close watch and be vigilant for us not to die at tender age.

Deed;

When overcame the level of suicide mission with the help of our parents and neighbours. Then, we started walking till we are about (3)THREE to (4)FOUR years, this time we are into lies, pilfering and greed. Here is where we first started being a valuable or being an ordinary human being with no purpose and future, the basic of lies, robbing the pot, eat chocolate from fridge, a token from mama’s purse, to seek penny from every visitors, wanted to eat when sighted others even when you are filled.

Reprimand;

PARENTS remain the main people to reprimand and eject these attitudes in us by cautioning, commenting, controlling and light beating.

NB: If parents fail their duty here, the children graduate in the act.

Deed;

From age (3)three or (4)four years to (7)seven, (8)eight, (9)nine and (10)ten years, the devil come visiting to every male and female children. At this level children embark on a devilish act and attitude, it is also the stage to grab courage and boldness over fear. Then we faced with the problem of distinguishing, we steal from parent, we fight at school even at home, stubbornness and willing to get punished at all time, disrespect to people and loyal to money, following bad gangs and skipping classes, environmental languages speaking louder than voice echoes.

Reprimand;

 Here the PARENTS faced with critical assignment, in my perspective, the fate and future being decided at this level, the level of career chosen.

The PARENTS are not only cautioning, advising, controlling and punishing but also engaging the child in extra curriculums, such as; attending extra class, computer class or even skill acquisition center and fervent prayer.

NB: If parents fail at this level, the child is long gone lost.

Deed;

10years to Adult, the bolt and nut of puberty, to love and be love, feeling belong, among and above, trying to love parent, getting odd feelings, trying new things and get addicted to, wanted to have new sexual experience and finding privacy by whatever means.

Reprimand;

At this level the parent only need to take charge counseling job and teaching sex, moral and attitude education, separation of rooms, helping and attending to the child’s need.

§           STAGE 2

Adult to getting Old. This is the stage where foundation laid in stage 1 will be built on, also the learned and acquired product of stage 1 took charge at this stage and life goes ahead. This stage the burden rested on the shoulder of the parents is relieved and the spouse, friends, neighbor, clergy/priest, government, company and society at large hawks the responsibility of reprimand, the second (2) people.    

Reprimand;

The spouse is the special adviser to her husband on all matter brings to her hearing.

The friends are principal adviser to their friend on home, work and life style.

The neighbors are minor adviser to neighbor on sometime home, work and friendship.

The clergy/priests are spiritual adviser to their member on religious life and relationship with God.

The governments are authoritarian adviser to their citizen on moral behavior, mode of business, duties, obligation and rights.

The companies are business adviser to the citizen on business investment, good goods and better products.

The societies are frequent adviser on whose advice is based on environmental languages.

§              STAGE 3

As an old man who death can at no time can knock on the door, have children, grand children and may be great grand children. Priorities at this stage are dignity, passing down good legacy and principles and may be preparation for death. Many silly mistakes will be made and who to reprimand an old man getting nearer to his six (6) feets abode…

Reprimand;

…the CHILDREN (the third (3) people)

Nature has a mouth full to chew.

NB: POSITIVE reprimands help through the three (3) stages

      NEGATIVE reprimands kill slowly till it kills the bearer.